How to help negative people
Whatever happens, stay positive
Once on the way, I went to visit an old friend, but barely seeing him, I immediately felt a dark wave rolling on me. I almost instantly regretted that I stopped. Many times I tried to change the subject of conversation, but he constantly returned to complaints that he did not like in his life, in other people and in general in the world. So it was half an hour, I could no longer stand it and I had to leave. This man was a strong energy vampire who tried to persuade me to agree with all his imaginary troubles and to justify his position of victim. When I refused to join him in his home-made jail, his discontent became apparent, but he tried to persuade me once more, and even more energetically. He himself left the life he had set for himself. He was a victim because he considered himself a victim.
One of the main principles that you should keep in mind when trying to help someone stuck on negative thoughts – do not get into the negativity of yourself. Negative people are energy vampires. They have virtually limitless ability to focus on what they do not want, whine, whine and complain about their lives, while at the same time denying all their responsibility for their own position. Their fear blocks the natural flow of energy from within, so they should instead receive energy from other people. Having spent several hours in their company, you usually feel devastation, fatigue, anxiety or stress. On the other hand, positive people have overcome their fears and their energy is poured out. Consequently, they do not take away, but give up energy. After a time spent in a company of positive people, you will feel a surge of energy, ascension and inspiration. Although most people are somewhere in the middle, and there is almost no energy exchange.
It does not matter what exactly the circumstances refer to negative people, explaining their point of view. After all, a person has freedom of choice and freedom of choice. It does not matter how incomprehensible a person was, when deciding to plunge into a negativity – it is precisely he who is now still in power to choose another path. So if you decide to help such a person, your primary role is to help make him a more conscious choice, which will most likely give him far more opportunities.
How can you help a negative person?
When I was a scout, I really wanted to get a rescuer icon. Even then, I learned that if you want to save the sinker, then jump into it in the water – the last thing that should come to your head. Instead, you have to think through the following steps: reach, quit, roar, diving. First, grab a stick or pole and try to reach the person. If a person is too far or unable to grab a pole, then try to throw him a life jacket. If that does not work, then jump into the boat, rotate it to him and stretch him a paddle for which he will be able to grab. And only as a last resort you can dive and swim to it yourself to save it, if you know how to do it.