Family happiness. We share the secrets
That is why we so often need advice from more experienced people, and we expect that any of them will finally open up a universal recipe for the preservation of family happiness. Meanwhile, everything you need for a long and happy life next to your loved one lies on the surface. By directing all efforts to find a “magic potion”, we cease to notice and realize what is truly valuable to the family.
My experience of family life is not great, but there were already both joy and sorrow in our family, there were disagreements and difficulties, which were eliminated by joint efforts … But now, I can not only assert myself, but I also feel with my whole heart that our family is happy with happiness. made friends! And I absolutely do not regret the secrets of this friendship to share.
The main thing is to respect each other. It’s hard to imagine true love without mutual respect, and the family is happy – all the more! If the spouses honestly respect each other, then such an unpleasant moment as insults and humiliations disappears at once. Even in moments of serious disagreement, you will never allow yourself to cross the boundary that invisibly creates a sense of respect for your partner.
The desire to see a loved one happy can torture miracles. And only a loving person is able to make every effort to achieve this. Well, when such a wish is mutually exclusive – what can be more beautiful for your family? Could there be a more solid foundation for relations?
NO humiliation! When humiliation becomes a frequent phenomenon in family relationships, one should probably think about the future of such a family. In any case, humble, as it seems to some, for the sake of love – it’s unnatural. This is the hero’s part of tragic love affairs. We live in the real world and live once! After living your life and looking back at her in an upright age, you have to feel pleasure, not pain. Well, when we ourselves humiliate a loved one who is “personally cordially” chosen as a companion, we scoff at ourselves!
The ability and desire to understand is valued very dearly! Of course, both male and female types of thinking have a place to be, but there is also a type of universal thinking. Adult people are quite capable of understanding. Only in family relationships is it important that both seek to understand. Otherwise, it turns out a situation in which one of the spouses periodically has to give in, that after a while he creates a sense of impairment of interests and his personality in general.
Trust should also be an integral part of your family. This applies not only to matters of marital fidelity, but also to future relationships with children. It is important, however, to remember that conquered by years, trust is easy to lose in a matter of minutes.
Be mutually suggestive. Politeness implies not only the knowledge and regular use of “magic” words, but also the willingness to go on mutual concessions, to do what is pleasing to your “half” in response to her understanding and approval of your desires.
The ability to listen in some cases turns out to be just a salvation. A person who is listening “attentively” is experiencing the strongest satisfaction that, in general, is a good addition to the satisfaction of the sexual one. PECULIARITIES OF THIS WOMEN ARE GIVEN TO THIS.