Your girlfriend has found another
When a girl goes to another – it’s always a double blow. You are deprived of your beloved woman and you acquire the complex of the loser, who was exchanged for an incomprehensible man. Try not to ruin yourself with negative thoughts. If you are determined to return the former, look at the situation soberly and rationally. Not the fact that the one she left is objectively better than you. At the heart of her care can lie a whole range of reasons.
Globally, you can distinguish four scenarios leaving the girl to another:
1. “Changing the guard”. There are girls like monkeys, until one branch is seized, the other is not released. They simply do not imagine how a woman can be alone, and, thinking of the gap, begin to look for a suitable replacement for you. As a rule, they are checking for a long time a new elect – hanging with him, sleeping, probing intentions, while still being in relationship with you. Such ladies think that if the guy does not, then they are losers. The problem here is that the girl puts you in a competitive situation and suggests fighting for her. That absolutely absolutely it is impossible to do in this situation – to deal with a competitor – not aggressively, not on souls. In fact, there is no cunning way to eliminate the other. You can engage in pumping, withstand a pause, show up effectively, show that you are steeper than your groom. You can even beat it. But your relationship has already given a crack. And pretty much, she will play this duel, throwing you all the new rivals so you do not relax and win over again and again. Do you need this?
2. “Outcome of disappointment”. The girl can go to another because he treats her much better. And even if you are smarter, more attractive or even more successful, then he takes care of her, she is dear to him and the girl feels it. Before such a departure, the girl very well thinks and weighs everything. Leaving the other, she wants to be sure that she will not regret it. Therefore, the worse you behave towards it, the faster it will strengthen in its new choice. And then it will be more difficult to change something. The girl is harder to make a decision, but having accepted it, she will not retreat. This happens when, before the break, she met a man better than the previous one, but the relationship with the current one was more important to her. At some point, the current began to jerk, and the new acquaintance became closer. I had several occasions when a woman walked away from the packed men to the more simple guys, simply because they were funny, cool, not bored and did not make a claim. But this happened not in one day – a new man is trying to reach for a woman for a long time, and the old man continues to behave abhorrently. Her decision in this case is absolutely conscious. And it is unlikely she will change him.
3. “On the bounce”. The girl leaves the man nowhere, but very quickly finds a new one – the exact opposite of the former. Here, the girl is trying to quickly mend memories of past relationships, believing that it is completely unlike the ex-man – a guarantee not to repeat the previous scenario. But the rebounds are short-lived. There is no sense to a new man, nothing is common. Over time, the girl begins to accumulate irritation, and after 3 – a maximum of 6 months, the girl leaves the new man. Working with this option is the easiest thing. We need to wait stupidly for 2 to 6 months, of course, changing and working on ourselves all this time. And as soon as they parted, they would appear updated and start seducing the former from scratch.
4. “Free relations”. Let’s say that the girl has free social norms. It is not suitable for long-term relationships. This type of women uses any situation where adultery is possible. Here it is not even possible to talk about treason, and the fact that the girl went to another. In fact, she was not going to keep someone loyalty. She has just such a picture of the world where sex with a new man is akin to a cinema hike – a nice variety of gray everyday life. It makes no sense to try to change it. Decide if you are ready for a free relationship or not. Only if you stay, you have to not just close your eyes to her ascension, but also take her as it is. Do not blame, do not arrange interrogation and surveillance. You can not – leave immediately.
It is clear that when the girl went to another, it is even worse than just dropped. Indeed, for a man, this is the strongest blow to self-esteem. Immediately I will say that the betrayal of the girl is so rigidly rolled out by the male Ego that one begins to drink from grief, another beats his face to an opponent, and the third to chase the former.
The first thing is to analyze these four scenarios and understand why the girl preferred another? If you came to the conclusion that she was gone, when he turned to a more vivid version or simply decided to have fun, and never loved you, forget about her. But, as if you were not upset now, try to admit that not all women are greedy and walking, and boys themselves by their behavior force girls to leave.
If the fact of the presence of a new man is established, and the girl admitted that she went to another, of course, it would not be superfluous to find out who she changed you. Knowledge of his weaknesses will help you