How to return the former: we eliminate 6 bugs of relationships
The operation on the return of the former always resembles a difficult chess party: we judge precisely the steps, come up with tricky combinations, analyze the situation and make strategically important decisions.
On the way of conquering a former girl you have to change, become more attractive, return her interest to herself. But at the same time as pumping positive qualities, you still need to neutralize your negative traits. After all, they have given the acceleration of the collapse of your relations and have become the reason for the break. Therefore, before working with your bugs, we must accurately understand that in your behavior, it annoys and repels the former, which became the trigger that launched the program to cool it.
Once again: women go first because the man loses his attractiveness. Quarrels, insults are all the consequences. We saw couples who quarreled and put up five times a day, but stayed together for years (and still live together). While you are attractive for her and she is in love with you to tremble in the knees – you can live like on a volcano – this will give you even greater passion for relationships. But as soon as your attractiveness for her is reduced, all the quarrels and clashes will become the catalysts of the rupture. And if you stopped being the hottest and coolest guy in the world for her, we guarantee that your girlfriend has left you, saying one of the following reasons:
1. You over-controlled it. Women hate when you dig in her private life, handbag and phone. This is a taboo. Do not ask about her former ones, do not climb into her phone, do not interrogate with whom she spoke on corporate party. All this demonstrates that you are afraid of losing it. Yes, she is important to you, but do not try to put her in a cage – otherwise she will definitely go away.
2. You have a lower self-esteem. You are still not satisfied with everything, concentrate on the risks, failures. You are constantly driving yourself and others into depression. You have problems at work, in your personal life, and with friends. You will go to rest – you will find the problem on vacation. If you have such symptoms – I advise you to go to the therapist. Do not kidding – if your back is sore, you are turning to the surgeon and neurologist. If you do not know who to contact – call, we will help.
3. You are constantly demanding attention from her. If you think that girls like it, when you fall asleep with their SMS-cams, confessions of love, calls, you are mistaken. We even have a method of parting such – begin to constantly press it with a large number of messages and require a response. The most persistent girls stayed for no more than two months.
4. You are constantly jealous of her. To friends, colleagues, other men. If you are jealous, you are always in a losing situation. Remember, I was talking about the number of daily contacts with other people? So, whether you want or not – she will communicate with other men. But if you’re jealous of her, you’ll burn out from the inside. And she will know how to get you out of balance. This is the path to the pit. The next steps are to control it, to demand attention, to demonstrate understated self-esteem.
5. You require confirmation from it. “Do you love me? And so much? “These questions kill the relationship. Just like uncertain behavior. Remember, women quickly scan for men’s uncertainty in themselves. So do not copy stupid templates from the reality show, where everyone is only busy exploring relationships. A sought-after man is engaged in his family, career and hobby, and not chewing pink snops.
6. You are lying to yourself. This point concerns, first of all, men who have learned the technologies of a pickup truck, but have not understood the essence of these technologies. In the process of seduction and in the early stages of relationships, you can show her an improved demo version and let her draw your ideal image in their thoughts. But when you build relationships, your real personality will be more and more visible. And if this person is not the same as the girl drew himself, she would leave. This is one of the most complex scenarios for restoring relationships.
When you take steps to bring it back, remember these six bugs. If you honestly confessed to yourself in at least one of them, until you get rid of it, it’s useless to put on it calls, throw up messages, try to “accidently” cross and push through it through friends. Work on correcting these mistakes, change for the better, and, having secured our expert support, you will definitely win this party by returning the former one.