How to return a girl: we increase the attractiveness
Seduction is one of the most important stages of the return of a former girl. Unfortunately, after parting, all of your best features for her fade, giving way to the unpleasant image of the infuriated, weak, helpless guy who clings to her and degrades ever stronger and stronger. With such no she or any other worthy girl will not meet. Yes, and your past merits after the separation lost the value in her eyes.
To hook the old one again and fall in love with her, you must change and become attractive again in her eyes. It may seem that attractiveness is a very subjective thing, however, this is far from the case. A lot of research proves that choosing a partner for themselves, women pay attention to a certain set of qualities that make a man attractive and very in demand for completely different girls.
So, so that any girl, including the former, gladly responded to your initiative and she tried to please you, you should have the following qualities:
You are a leader. People go to you, you can lead them with you. If there is a crisis situation, you do not lose your self-control, you can take responsibility. Other men respect you and want to have a deal with you.
You have an inner rod. Women will always check how firm you are in your opinion and are emotionally stable. Remember that. Give in to trifles, but do not change your position on important issues.
You take care of yourself. You pay attention to your appearance, cultural development, and surroundings. Very often men, finding themselves in relationships, begin to “swim along”. Allow yourself to relax, stop watching for yourself. Not surprisingly, such men do not attract female attention.
You do not care what others think of you. Sometimes you can behave provocatively, attracting the attention of other people. You are not afraid to express your opinion and defend it publicly. At the same time, it’s hard for you to hurt and engage in an empty dispute. You know your price.
Women are experiencing positive emotions near you. You should be able to laugh a woman. They say that laughter is a little orgasm. You can be serious in life, but the ability to cheer a woman is a huge trump card.
You are rich. I’m not about money, although they are also important. You have the answer to the question: “What can you give to your woman?” Culturally, emotionally. Being near you, the woman wants to get something, giving back to you in exchange. You compete for her attention with friends, with magazines and TV, with other men, at last. If you are rich, it’s easier to compete.
You are socially active. You do not live on the route “house-work-home-every Friday”. Your leisure is not limited to watching TV shows and computer games. You always have a story on the topic: “What has been interesting with me over the past week.” There are many bright photos in your smartphone and you have a story for each one.
You have goals. Girls build relationships with those who are ambitious and purposeful. And they leave the men of the lazy ones, who drink in the online toy for a bottle of beer.
You have hobbies. You are not a car for making money. You have a hobby to which you pay attention, with a story about which you can get carried away by almost everyone.
You have a personal life. The personal space that exists, regardless of the presence or absence of the girl. You have something to do in her absence, at moments when she has a bad mood, if you suddenly quarrel. You are doing these things with pleasure. There is a girl, no her – they are always present in your life.
You want other women. Whoever would say anything, with very rare exceptions, you can not be attractive to only one woman. Moreover, how other women react to you is an important criterion for your attractiveness. We advise our students, before going to a serious conversation with their girlfriend, to spend at least a mini-meeting on the other. It magically changes the attitude: a woman for some reason begins to value you more. And how do they feel it?
You’re caring. You can take care of your loved ones, your woman. You can take care of you, but do not bend the stick, do not become a podcastle. She is good next to you.
You understand her. You can guess her thoughts, her desires. It’s not necessary to do them all: the sweet should not be tasty. But understanding her psychology, interests, behavior in different situations is the key to strong relationships. Well, and to her return too.
You are the optimist. You often smile, you have many reasons for joy. In your life, the glass is always half full, and failures you perceive as a useful experience. By your optimism you are able to infect other people, including her.
You are always good everywhere. One of my friends said: “Holidays are not in the place where you are resting. Vacation – in your head, in your mood for rest. ” Exactly so must be your life. You are good at work, good with friends, good at home. You are good everywhere. If you are somewhere bad, you just do not stay there.
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